lucky girl
April 12, 2009Dean is the type that wouldn’t invest in a girl that isn’t his girlfriend. When we first dated, he wasn’t overly sweet or charming. No flowers, no paying for dinner, no sweet texts (OK, this sounded a lot better in my head)
In some ways, I think that made me fall for him. I think that was one of his moves – not to show anything.
But it feels so good that now I’m his girlfriend, he treats me like a real princess. It makes me realise that guys who charm you with flowers at the beginning aren’t doing it for love or anything close, but just so you’ll go out with him. That means that the gesture of giving flowers or presents is so easy to do for these guys, and there’s nothing special about it; they probably do that for every girl they’re trying to woo.
Maybe that’s why I never fall for guys who showered me with romantic gestures even before anything is solid.
How do you even know if a girl is worthy enough before knowing her personality? Surely, you’re only looking at what’s on the outside and solely basing your future actions on that. Lucky if she’s a good one. If she isn’t, then the guy will just call the florist to send flowers to another girl who caught his eye, no? Be careful with these kind of guys.
That’s why Dean is different. Only months into the relationship, I started seeing flowers and diamonds. And by that time, it actually means something to us.
It feels so much better feeling all these tingly feelings after you’ve fallen in love. Dean really spoils me, I swear. Always buying me things I don’t need, but he knows I want. Almost 3 years together, I’m really lucky we’re still totally into each other, and he still loves to leave me surprises such as this.
What I learned--> Don’t be so blinded with sweet gestures. I think relationships are much more than that. Don’t make fuss about what he doesn’t do, but give him credit for what he does do. And most importantly, be patient and don’t rush anything. Good things come to those who wait.
Alaaaaaaaaa…. This is so sweet!!!!!!!!! You are one lucky girl. Now, NEVER let him go
does dean have a brother? WTF
erm this is not tzeching *weak smile
Sounds like you really hit the jackpot with this guy, Proudduck. He sounds like the kind of guy all girls want. I wanna be just like him.
You better hold on to him (and buy him lots of presents too).
Dean, can you cc this to Rl?
lol @ comment #3!
tzeching, dean has FOUR brothers. the only ones not taken are too young for you, sadly!
I will be sending the link to this post to MWLN.
Sorry Ss I dont know why you would want me to cc this to Rl. He is much better than me….he is my guru
that’s about right, Dean. when you coming back to see me la?
Rl and Dean get a room…..
Hi, I really like this post, and I hope you don’t mind me rewriting it on my blog π
credits to you of course π
No worries, qiks! Thanks for the credit. =)
Aiyo so sweeeeeet la your Dean.
Lovely post, proudduck. Missing you.
Faster call me when the parentals have left alright? xx