why laaaaaa????

May 19, 2011 • 37 comments • 2223 views

Ok, so I’ve waited soooooo long to write about this. And I wanted to do an amazing post for this, but I just didn’t know how to. Nothing seems to suffice. So whatever la, I’m just going to say it like normal people would.

ASMA’ IS GETTING HITCHED YO.

That’s right, one of my bestest friends/manager/stylist/prayer alarm clock. Is going to be someone’s wife.

It feels so surreal! I am so happy for her but it’s definitely bittersweet for me. Because not only will I have to ask permission from her husband to take her out, but also….

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she’s marrying a Singaporean and moving there!!!!!

*cries a river*

I had to write her Save The Date Facebook event (that’s right, I’m her slave writerΒ  -__-) and this was what I wrote:

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Salam & Surprise!!!

In less than 2 months, I’m going to be a Singaporean. Sigh. I know most of you are going to miss me, but don’t worry, I’m just an Orchard Road away. (…..it’s the busiest shopping street in Singapore, you goons!)

I regret to inform that I am a Malaysian traitor, but I am happy to announce that by the blessing and will of Allah SWT I will be marrying the love of my life, whom I met back in high school. Sadly, he still thinks he’s in high school since he has Star Wars shoes (which he’ll probably wear at the wedding), but he gives me all sorts of butterflies and has a heart of gold πŸ™‚ So, I’d love for you guys to come and be with us on our big day. I promise no cheesy love songs!

So please Save the Date ~June 19th, 2011~ and join us under my Rambutan tree for a day of celebrating love, life and good food!

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She edited a whole lot. I had so many funny things in there that she just slashed. She also slashed “idiot” and “whyyyyyy?!!!” -___-

So yes, that’s why she’s been MIA a lot in my blogposts. I hardly see her as she’s so busy planning her wedding! Man people invest A LOT in weddings. Crazy stuff, weddings. I’m in the wrong business. I need to be a wedding planner.

I am planning an FV event in collaboration with Tom Abang Saufi and just as a joke, I sent her the invite through email:

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Hey my once-friend Asma’,

Hope you are well.

I understand that you are spending a good 2 months of your life which equals to 1,440 hours of your life being dedicated to planning 2 days worth of party. I admire your commitment to this Singaporean and I do hope those 24 hours of celebration will justify you losing a best friend.

If you are not too busy picking out the colour of roses you’d like to have at the wedding, I would really like to invite you to FashionValet.net’s next event. This one is in collaboration with the launch of Tom Abang Saufi’s new line Tas Iman by Tom Abang Saufi which is stocked at FV. Attached is the press release and e-invite yeah. Please let me know if you want this email sent to your caterer too, seeing that you are spending so much time with her I might have a better chance seeing her there.

But really hope to see you there anyway! Cheers!!

Sincerely,

Vivy.

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“You think you’re sooooo funny, don’t you”, my BBM beeped from her.

But don’t worry, we are always communicating and she still thinks of me and BBMs me when she’s in the toilet, bored. I’m the luckiest friend alive.

I went with her to her first fitting of her nikah dress and had a big lump in my throat. And today, she had her reception dress fitting and BBM-ed me pictures all the way. I couldn’t help but tear. She looks so gorgeous MasyaAllah. And today she said “I’m going to miss you” and I felt so sad!! She added, “I guess I’ll admit it someday” but still, you have no idea…. Asma’ is sooooo not the touchy feely type, you’re lucky to get an “I Like You” out of her.

I can’t believe it’s happening. I can’t believe she’s moving!!!! Until now, I refuse to speak to her fiance and whenever they Skype, I’d go to the computer and ask “Heyyyy!! How are you?” and before he can answer, I hang up. Hehe. I’m going to crop him out of all the wedding photos on the day.

Imma miss you πŸ™