bila lagi?

October 11, 2012

We’re both wearing Radzuan Radziwill Batik Kaftan tops. I am also wearing an Eltii necklace.

My SIL is about to give birth next month, and I swear she could be the poster child of “Pregnancy is Beautiful. Everyone should get pregnant.”

From day 1 of her pregnancy, she has been glowing and it pisses me off that from the back, people think I’m the daughter in law who’s pregnant! She looks gorgeous, Masyallah! Sometimes when she sits down, we forget she’s buncit.


The thought of pregnancy scares the crap out of me, but when I look at her, she makes pregnancy all calm and whatnot. Then I watch What To Expect When You’re Expecting. Aiyo… cancel cancel! I don’t want to be that lady who peed in her pants, and doesn’t care about her hair. *cringe*

It’s really different for every woman and you can’t model your pregnancy against someone else’s, not even your mom. You will only know when you are pregnant, and by then there’s no turning back. Hehe.

Everywhere Dean and I go now, the first question is “Bila lagi?” and rubs my tummy.

Uhmmmm, first of all, that was my lunch, thank you very much. Second of all, I’ve only been married 3 months!

It would be lying to say that Dean and I have never talked about it yet. Our friends talk about it too; some want a 2-year honeymoon so they can travel and enjoy each other, and some want kids right away! Dean and I don’t really know which group we want to be in, but I guess for us, we’ll just accept whatever rezeki comes our way.

Sidetrack commercial break kejap. 

I have 3 of these RR kaftan tops and I love them because of the vibrant colours. You can make it less kaftan-ish and give it a more casual look by belting it up.