dealing with hate
April 15, 2013 • 103 comments • 6147 views
Sigh.
Really???
You really think I haven’t seen hundreds of these kinds of comments being thrown at me?
I’ve been blogging for 5 years, please girl, this is nothing…. Let me tell you blogging isn’t for the faint-hearted because exposing your life will invite soooo many haters (but also comes with the lovely like-rs who will motivate you throughout). But can you blame your haters? Of course not! Here you are telling the journey of your life, ups and downs, your achievements, and what… you expect everyone to clap and jump for you? Self-absorbed much?
Human behavior is as it is; envy is one of man’s biggest challenges.
We have envy in all of us, we just have to learn to cleanse our hearts.
Asma’ pointed out Surah Al-Falaq to me. Even the last ayat addresses envy amongst human beings, even Syaitan was kicked out of heaven because of his envy towards Nabi Adam. So what more us… mere human beings with many many flaws!
You do or you don’t do, you’re nice or you’re not nice, you will get people hating you. That’s life. So don’t be immature and think everyone will like you. Try having a business at a young age, try having a supportive loving family, try being happy…. you’ll see dissatisfaction from others around you. Truth is, everyone has struggles, just different kinds (financial struggles, family struggles, religious struggles, emotional struggles, anything!). But there’s no point justifying to people because everything you have is from God.
You’re not happy with someone? Try questioning Allah swt, not blame them for their rezeki. Most of the time, people are not angry at you. People are angry at what you have (or don’t have). So don’t try to be arrogant and justify because you have no clue either! These things are just on loan to you and could be taken away anytime. Only God knows when or how or why.
Just do your best with whatever you’re given, and do it sincerely without bad intentions to others. There’s no time to dwell and cry about petty things because seriously, people have lives to attend to and bigger issues to deal with.
So.. in life, let’s remind ourselves to be good people. Focus on what we have to do and along the way, always forgive people who hurt us, knowingly or unknowingly. We all have to learn to chillllll and not be so angry all the time.
you are amazing and successful and beautiful and everything a girl could dream of. so be proud of who you are. lots of love! xx
erkkkk…being strong vivy…just ignore them..kita takkan pernah puas dgn apa yang kita ada selagi mana kita bergelar manusia..Allah knows the best for us and may Allah bless you and your family..i’ll always pray that you’ll better muslimah..:)
sorry..type…be strong vivy…hehehehe…
really? omg.. comment mcm tu sekali. get a life! vivy is strong enough to face this kind of things. The problem is that person it self. life full of hatred, euw. miserable i could say her life is! people misunderstood people sometimes, maybe dia tgk vivy is so happy with her life that came out. oi, tak kan vivy nk tulis benda2 sedih n masalah dia dlm blog. nnti kata mintak simpati pulak. xphm la… erghh… hate this kind of things.,…
really? omg.. comment mcm tu sekali. get a life! vivy is strong enough to face this kind of things. The problem is that person it self. life full of hatred, euw. miserable i could say her life is! people misunderstood people sometimes, maybe dia tgk vivy is so happy with her life that came out. oi, tak kan vivy nk tulis benda2 sedih n masalah dia dlm blog. nnti kata mintak simpati pulak. xphm la… erghh… hate this kind of things.,…
I envy you because you have balenciaga bag(s)! Hehe honestly vivy, people are envious because u have everything, but i guess that is only the surface. Everyone has their own struggle, and i believe you do too. Whatever it is, you are an inspiration to young women out there who should work hard and at the same time stay sassy and classy. May Allah keep you steadfast in your journey! 🙂
Haters gonna hate! Potatoes gonna potate
Haters will always hate. But strong people like you will stay strong and continue moving on.nMy prayers are always with people like you, Vivy.
Well said Vivy! Maybe she hates you because you scored Dean instead of her hehehehhe…
perhaps that particular person haven’t heard about the famous fashion valet and who’s behind the success of fashion valet. that shows how successful you are and the reason y ppl envy u!
this made me love you more vivy, seriously people can be so mean even when they dont know us, but they somehow keep us in check that we can be more better than what they expect us not to 🙂
oh my..some people are full of negativity.ignore it vivy..i will support u..i love reading all your entries. inspire me a lot and full of joy as a wife, daughter ..keep it up vivy..keep on blogging. don’t worry vivy. May Allah bless u always.amin..
well said! buat salah, tak buat pun salah. we can never ever make everybody happy. as long as you know what you do, ikhlas dan ingat rezeki is from Him. be strong vivy! sy doakan ygterbaik utk vivy in future…(cant wait to meet baby D!) =D
Well said Vivy. It’s not very pleasant to be pregnant and getting all these negative vibes from those jealous of you, but you go girl!!nInsyallah. It’s what in our hearts that matters to God and He knows dah cukup.nDunia~~~ So many wants to play God and judge others.nJust smile and ignore. nAnak dlm perut tu jaga…. dia pun tak suka see mommy sad sad.
I adoreeee you vivy and keep up your great writing…you inspire people so just stay true to yourself…^___^
Seeing how you responded makes me love you even more <3 Nvm la butthurt people.
Sabar y dek. Tu eyebag sbb nangis ke ape? Jgn nangis2, nanti babyD cengeng.luv
Assalamualaikum. Be strong dear Vivy. Haters everywhere. No person, no sickness, no disappointment can stop Allah’s plan for your life. What He promised will come to pass. Lebiuuuuuuuu. XOXO. 😀
You handled these haters very well, Vivy. Your reply to her…is it a her? Has to be la…anyway, d reply was awesome.
Most people have this sick feeling – they are not happy when good things happen to other people and they are happy when bad things happen to others and they need to justify themselves by telling it out loud. nGood stuff you have learned at what 22? I am 30 and just starting to learn about life, having it loaned from Allah. Read Al-Falaq and two other surah ‘Qul’ every night – a reminder for all of us. May God protect you from people like her and many others with bad intentions.
V, many people said the same thing to me. “Typical anak org kaya”. Maybe if they have parents like us they might endup being a brat and tak bersyukur dgn rezeki Allah. That’s why now, they are more to dengki. Just ignore them. We are the lucky ones. because we never do bad thing to others. And takde niat buruk. So Allah grant us with a good life. Continue to be thankful. Kita tak ganggu orang lain. N take care. U going to be a wonderful mother.
Hi there Vivy! I’ve been reading your blog for 2 years now. First came across your blog while researching for nice places to eat in KL, and have never missed a post since then. I also read your blog because I can relate to your efforts to be a better Muslim, and you actually have to do them under the public eye. To be honest, I do sometimes wonder if you will be where you are now if you were from a different background. But like you said, this life is temporary and we humans are so flawed. My colleague told me once that while I may think I have the worst luck in life, I may have overlooked or don’t know what has been given to me. Like not getting into an accident, not getting cancer etc etc. I hope your ‘hater’ takes a moment to count her blessings as well, no matter how small.nnA reader,nBrunei
Oh btw, you guys are an inspiration! Can’t believe you’re only 24 -_-‘
i agree with you vivy… we do good things or wrong things, we always have haters. just think they just want to see us down… it is better for us ignore this persons, because everythings happen in our life is from Allah…not the haters. 🙂 good luck
semoga menjadi muslimah sejati .. vivy sgt baik hati. semoga vivy terbuka hati untuk menutup aurat dan menjadi spt toot. org2 yg dengki ni akan lagi meroyan dengan vivy yg lebih baik insya allah. kak pray 4 u n baby
kak vivy, stay strong ok?:) you have everything that a girl want. me too. I adore you soooo much. i read your blog everyday because indirectly, it gives me semangat to be successful in the future (just like you). wherever we go, there will always be haters that are not happy with us. what we can do? just smile and leave it to Allah. Allah sedang menguji kita. if you feel mad about something, read this ayat -n Dengan nama Allah yang Maha Pemurah yangnMaha Penyayang.n.n”Aku berlindung diri dengan Allah dari syaitan yang terkutuk:nYa Allah, ampunilah dosaku dan hilangkanlahnkepanasan hatiku,dan lepaskanlah akan dakundari syaitan yang terkutuk.”nnbe strong k?:) n*teringin sangat2 nk jumpa kak vivy* 🙂
betul la, crying foul will amplify sadness. accepting life as it is. Yeeehaw!
Hey Vivy, I could be wrong but I believe the person behind the pseudonym ‘Nadders’ is possibly someone you know..happened to me once in high school, found out it was actually a good friend whom I used to have sleepovers with and talk about everything under the sun. When you’re plague with jealousy, you can never be really happy for those who do better than you! and what you could do is dua for the best for this person insyaAllah she’s get some hidayah from the Almight 🙂
she’ll**
Thats the problem with u bloggers, ure the one who writes things and feed all the infos abt ur life to the public and then complaint of being judged. Duhhh bloggers are definitely attention seekers, pleaselah u ask for this urself. U do sound very mengada though, hey u portray this urself thru ur writings so face it. Ur friend toots on the other hand blogs quite well i must say, not so full of herself or mengadish. Just face it, u write all the details urself
masyaAllah, ada aje org mcm ni.. i only ‘hate’ u coz u look good no matter what u wear LOL.. oh well, haters are everywhere. the more successful and happier u are, these parasites seems to multiply somehow.. be strong k!! luv ya! 🙂
Dear Nadders, tbh I envy Vivy and what she has but really lah if you’re born privileged mesti you pun suka jugak the fine(r) things in life. At least from what I could see Vivy respects the elderly, hardworking and well hardworking
I read ur blog almost everyday and always anxiously waiting for the next entry. You’ve inspired me a lot especially in fashion (i got myself a pair of wedding shoes from Christy Ng after reading ur blog and i’m so thankful for that) and also for being brave enough to get married, start a business and becoming a mother at a very young age! Well done to that and i hope this can cheer u up 🙂
I see it does affect you. U wouldn’t be posting the comment up like that it didn’t. Well, envy and annoyed are two different things, some are just annoyed at how u write honestly those posts on getting a hundreds of ringgits of dustbin and things like that are a lil annoying. Many of us can afford those but we dont write and tell the world about it. Set boundries what you can share and what you just keep yourself to, thats humbleness. Not telling people how we all should be noble and divine and be humble but not actig like one.
semoga Allah ampunkan dosa dia. nnSemoga Allah terus terusan memberikan yanh terbaik buat Vivy dan Fadza amin
Errr, so I guess I’m not ‘people’? Because I like you very much! Hehe. You’re an inspiration to a lot of girls and women out there, including me. I wish I was as strong as you dealing with these kinds of people. You’re amazing, so keep being yourself! 🙂
will always love and adore u! 😀
Honestly, I am sure you’re already a pro at dodging hate from the haters, but I just wanted to share something I heard a few days ago. nThey say envy is the byproduct of counting others’ blessings instead of your own. So for the haters, you really should start practicing gratitude and attract more blessings in your own life. Rather than playing critic on who deserves what or not. Dang, I yang ter-emo pulak! All the best Vivy!
Just jangan tinggal solat ok. Always and always be thankful with all the blessings. Allah gives for reasons. Just don’t forget him. Trust me, I learn lots from your blog. 🙂
omg vivy u are ahmazzinnggg, seriously. i love u from the bottom of my heart eventhough i just your blog reader. the way u deal with haters really cool 🙂
Pretty,kind,cheeky daugther,lovely wife,awesom boss,young,being pragnent, who dont get jealous? oh n u blog do motivate people,plez keep blogging vivy!
Wise words, my dear.
Love this post. Thank you for the reminder.
Well said. Brilliant post. You’re making a difference.
And I agree with the people here, you are an inspiration. Your parents must be so proud of you :’) Penat lelah cari duit untuk kita dan hantar sekolah tinggi2, this is the time to repay our parents kan.
ok, that commenter whoever he/she is has got serious issues. but yeah, c’aest la vie. even Rasulullah who is perfect in every way too has haters, so what’s there to be surprised about kan. whatever it is, u know i sayang uuuuu! <3
haha! funny people.. it’s okay kak vivvy.. i saw u today at reclaim ur heart by Yasmin Mogahed n she already mention that “the more you lean to the creation, the more the creation will push you away” love comes from Allah 🙂 i adore u so much because even u r so called anak org kaya but you still have the effort to make the money comes from ur very own self rather than duduk rumah goyang kaki. Keep up the good work kak vivvy.. there are many people who loves you <3
Well said dear. love how vivy pointed out reminders and kind words instead of bashing the hater directly in return. Very wise vivy, chin up. Sometimes we have to be the bigger person when it comes to handling harsh remarks kan… just dont stoop to their level, and as long as you know what you’re doing, it’s okay. Only take remarks from those who really matter.
thank you thank you for the reminder…for the past few weeks ive been so down with whats happening in mylife..this is a wakeup call…i will read this everytime im down..this is the best reminder to me…thank you again… :”D
I like you Vivy..I like how you stayed positive despite everything…I need to learn from you…cheers 🙂
Haters gonna hate. That’s life. You have a pretty damn good life and bragged about it; should see such things coming. Malaysians should stop worshipping or adoring the wrong people. Perhaps they should change their mindset first.
lol nadders.. ure so funny nadders… dont take serious on wht ur friends talked behind u, it just not worth it.. as long they dont back stabb, take it as a normal behavior, who doesnt talk behind of other people??… childish sangat.. pegi masuk tadika balik pls.. vivy, i envy u anak org kaya.. but tah la, i cant find anything that make me hate u, so how? hehe… ;p
biarlah vivy. dia tak nak baca, dak palah.. baik story about diri sendiri drpd org lain dalam blog right… self absorbed ke, apa ke, we all love you!!! keep it coming vivy! everytime i have hard day at work / bad stories about my kids… i’ll turn to your blog… seriously… moga panjang umur, and i would LOVE TO MEET YOUR MUM! she raised you and your kakak soo well.
Salam Dear Vivy, nDo ignore worthless comments. They’re opinions are just meant to hurt your feelings, and are not at all truthful. Try to remember that people often insult out of anger or jealousy. Some people take joy out of hurting others, and anything they say should be put in the back of your mind. Many others supports you and that’s all that matters. You’re a great inspiration to us young women ! Keep `em coming 😉 nnLove xx
bersabar vivy. istigfar banyak2.. banyak mana kesenangan Allah bagi, banyak tu juga la dugaan yang datang. takpela, forgive them. doakan Allah bukak jalan kesenangan untuk kebaikan buat orang keliling kita juga, including our haters 🙂
hahahaha. that NADDERS was just being funny. she cudnt stand watching u she gotta say something to let it out loud supaya hati puas. hahah. Allah uji kamu tu nadders, sikit mcmni pun dah hilang sabar? LOL. for me, vivy @ her family must have done good (somewhere) to actually receive good things in their lives. Alhamdulillah for that. 😉
Vivy, I like you A LOT! If that makes me an alien then so be it! nnLove xx
hi vivy,nnbeen reading ur blog for years and been supporting u silently all the way. nnbut v, what do u mean try questioning Allah SWT?
Very good post my dear. I was feeling pretty crappy about work yesterday morning (Monday blues lah katakan) and felt like that throughout the whole morning. Got home for lunch and somehow read about the heartbreak people had to go through highschool shootings and suddenly I realised how bless we really are.. Dont fret the small stuff.. Orang lain will have way bigger issues to cope.. Keep on blogging.. xoxo
Sometimes god grant you a more fortunate family because He knows u’ll appreciate more and do great things to achieve life successfully, and u did. Others, who’s less fortunate have to learn the harder way in life because they will only appreciate things more when the going gets though.
hi vivy,i’m a new reader to your blog. and i like the way u portray yourself. u just being youself. with the whole pregnancy thing,the ups and down. keep it up.
LOL.. soo pathetic.. kesian la.. no life but just to condemn people.. get a life haters.. if you guys don’t like her just shhhoooooohhhhh shoooohhh… this is not a place for you, haters…!
kak vivy jawab je cmni ea…”ADA AKU KESAH?” Haha..all the best to kak vivy!! we love u and bby D hihi
good point..congrats again..this is your second writting about your hater and guess what? u kneelt it babeh….booo to the haters…u r an outstanding muslimah,i must say..keep it up girls..adore u even u r younger than me.
dear vivy,nJust remember what you mom and dad always tell u.Like my parents always tell me too.. Be gratefull of rezeki and rahmat that Allah beri.nU are doing just perfect.Yang penting apa di mata Allah n our parents,ok.nBukan di mata orang lain.nnI presonally respect u! U are one of my idol belive me or not…nSo,just smile… =) take care V!
lol if those people are annoyed with how/what Vivy writes, why take the trouble to enter proudduck.com and actually read what she writes? I’d say they’re just a bunch of annoyance-seekers, if you can call Vivy an attention seeker.nnAnd anyway, Vivy does not need to seek attention nor is she self-absorbed. Readers readily give her the attention and are also absorbed with her life, that’s why they beg to know more of it! Hahahah. Blogger-reader relationship is beautiful 😉
Sending you tonnes of love virtually! Keep rocking and stay who you are because that is why your readers are here in the first place! 🙂
That was my comment above, not hiding behind anonymously.
“”we must b hurt in order 2 grow, fal in order 2 know & lus in order 2 gain, bcoz some lesson in life, a best learnt tru pain nnn remember people only rain in on ur paradise bcoz theyre jelours of ur sun n tired of thier shade”””
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Hi vivy, don’t worry. It’s nothing we can do for negative mind people. Be focus. I know it hurts when we hear all this thing when we are trying hard to share happiness in life. There some people who can’t see happiness in other’s life. Oh just leave it darling…Allah knows who we are, knows who you are…just chill, learn it love it live it..that’s my game plan…try apply it on urs too..ur awesome…and always are…u have no idea how much u have inspired readers out there. Smile… Salam….emuah
adat lah dunia. ada yang suka, ada yang tak suka. Yang penting, kita buat baik, kita doakan orang yang benci kita tu dapat ketenangan jiwa. Saya suka baca vivy punya blog. lighten up my day.. 🙂
Babe, nie rasanya macam someone yang kenal dgn you….. may b dia syok kat Dean kot…huhuhuhuh.
i wouldn’t put it as jealousy, but more like INSECURITY on the haters’ part. 😉
Dear Vivy. I’ve always been a fan. But please do just stick to blogging about fashion. Don’t let this be a “I am better than thou” arguement. Very tacky. No need to acknowledge any haters if you know yourself as you claim you do.
be strong! keep smiling 🙂
be strong,keep smiling 🙂
I discovered you via instagram, and dang, I gotta say I LOVE your blog. It’s just so earnest and funny! And your response to the Hater was just HILARIOUS. I laughed so hard! Cannot laugh loudly, people in my office will think I’m mad. Props to you for handling haters so well! =D
Oh wow. I was just thinking about the very same issue on my way back from work today. Regardless of how hard one may try, it is impossible to please everyone. It just is. What is important then is for us to do our best in fulfilling our duty, sincerely. Listening to good advice is good but paying attention to negative comments, will just drain our energy. nKeep being awesome, Vivy. I’ve been following your blog for almost 3 years now and I absolutely love it. I love your optimism whichI believe is contagious. You’re very inspiring.
Salam Vivy.. i love reading your blog, u make small things that happen in your daily life sound fun..anyway just a comment though, i know sometimes u tell a story that makes u look like a fool or ignorant….but i know it is just in a spirit of jest..but maybe others are not that bright to capture your sense of humor, and i think u r smart enough to know a barrier between public n private.esp when u hv a husband now…All the best~~
I second what everyone’s saying and I love the way you approached this problem! 🙂 But a friend once told me, sometimes these criticisms actually come from Allah as reminders of our flaws, for us to pause and reflect how our relationships with people have been lately. One of the ways to jaga hubungan dengan Allah is by jaga hubungan dengan manusia! 🙂 Maybe we don’t realize our flaws sometimes and that’s why Allah has sent us this people to remind us of our flaws. Perhaps we haven’t been thanking Him as much as He wants us to or.. we haven’t been as humble as He wants us and that’s why He has sent us these criticisms? And like everyone said, at the end of the day, it’s His opinion of us that matters ultimately so just focus on that the most! Hope this will help u 🙂
hi vivy! nnthis chick is just jealous of your success and what more wonderful life that you have. 🙂 jealousy is a form of flattery & she has no idea what she’s even talking about. nnYOU are such an inspiration to so many girls out there including myself hehe nkeep on blogging & of course enjoy your life the way you want it to be without these useless haters -.-
It’s been ages since I last left a comment here. This post compels me to leave one to say well done Vivy! You say it perfectly
Its okay, bagaikan dugaan Allah utk bertemu dgn org mcm ni. You showed maturity on how u answered nadders. Its okay biar org buat kita jgn kita buat org. Just keep on improving and be reminded of our flaws. May Allah bless her despite all the mean things she commented. By criticising others means she criticizes God’s creations. Its okay just forgive pple with low intellectual like this. Sepatutnya mendoakan yg baik utk org bukan sebaliknya. Nadders actually ur the attention seeker because surely lots of pple will comment on this issue.
Be strong vivy!
I just LOVE LOVE LOVE you….nnThat’s all…nWhy not? Leave Vivy alone u haters!! *pffftttt*
Pelik bin ajaib, if you don’t like her, just go and play somewhere else la, don’t have to stop by, read, comment and ANNOYED others. There is no “COMPULSORY-TO-READ” sign in this blog…nSay what you want to say and do what you want to do.nThere’s no in between. People will either love you for it or hate you for it. So just go for it V ^^ Don’t bother as long as you and family are happy 🙂
watlek watpeace!:D
dont worry vivy..continue to do what u are doing……U have rich parents, so what? Not everybody has this chance to have rich parents, right? U are one of the lucky one….can buy chanel and many branded bags when u were still a student.. How many of us have that chance? I think even some people retired never even own a couch….All the best vivy…P/S: sell ur chanel and give the money to Gaza.. Then ur haters will keep their mouth shut…
This is honestly my first and the last time here. No wonder most of the comments here are all abt praising u bcos the rest of us wont come here. I agree with kuching, if u really are what u claim u wouldnt be posting nadders comment up like that , seems more like an attack to me with trying to get all your fans backing u up and attackig her at the same time whilst pouring some divine words of how good we should be. If you really are what u preach u wouldnt post up nadders comment as a topic in the first place. Ure just same. Tryig to look angelic but actions speak louder than words.
Ahhhh I hate yuhhhh… u know y? Because u r pregnant about 6 months or so but still can wear highheels and look pretty! I is jealous hihihihi… when I was pregnant last year I cannot fit into my fav jeans and my fav stilleto at 4 months of pregnancy. Ahh so sad! Anyhow on the hatred matter just ignore them. They just jealous that they couldnt have everything they want. And believe nobody can have eberything … I mean come on dont be such a keyboard warrior and being jerk with negative comment on people life.. . Kalau xsuka xpayah baca blog dia… ini sibuk bc blog sibuk follow twitter and iG.. munafik betul! Ok vivy may u have a very wonderful maternity period.. once the baby is out, good luck! Mine is a boy and he’s already turn my world upside down! Lol
that’s what people do. They hate other people -.-” but the best thing about them, they still read and follow your life journey. haha jokes on them. Anyway, there are way moorree people loves you Vivy. wattaheck right 😀 *Cheers!*
wow she must be really jealous of you ..nbtw love your reply to her hehe very mature adult!
I have been following your blog before u established FV and i knew the ups n downs u and Dean went through.Be strong and always amalkan the 3 Qul insya’allah.I was also facing painful challenge during my 1st pregrenancy but with God’s will i been able to go through it.Now hubs n myself living in a more comfortable live with our 5 beautiful childrens.May God blessed u and ur family.Amin
hi vivy, I’ve been a silent reader of your blog but can I just say that I absolutely love reading your blog and daily postings because you write well and some of your postings are so witty and quirky 🙂 anyway, would like to let you know that you’re doing very well and as most of your readers would have told you, you’ve got it all – gorgeous, talented, industrious, great friend and a mommy-to-be. there will always be people who will be envious of all your achievements but they don’t matter at all in your life. Stay positive! 🙂 Keep up the great work in FV and keep writing.
Excuse me people, it is her blog and when it is hers, I think she can do whatever she pleases. People telling her not to show her stuff because people might hate or feel envious lah and whatever not is just ridiculous. Humans memang takde kerja suka duduk kutuk orang left and right. Regardless lah she brag ke tak brag, humans will find fault. Whenever Vivy shows her luxury stuff, I’ll be like eh so pretty and if I cannot afford one I either don’t think about it or I try to save for it. I love her posts including posts that the haters kata bragging, albeit not all. And the posts yang I dont like, I just ignore.nnSo Vivy, be yourself, by all means if your niat is to brag, then do change, but if your niat is pure and you just want to share with us about your life, let the haters hate and let Allah deal with them.
la plak… kita baca blog utk motivate n also for info. Org lebih kita tumpang suka, org kurang, kita bersyukur ngan apa yg kita ada… be +ve.
im ur silent reader…i love ur blog..really love..i know u are strong woman…=)
wow, that was ….. Just so you know you are an inspiration to me and I’m sure a lot of people out there as well. Just take this like a speck of dust. Those kind of people will never be satisfied with whatever they have. FYI, I started blogging after a year reading your blog 🙂 May Allah bless you and your family. Hope for your safe delivery soon. InsyaAllah. I love your blog and FV. May you continue on with success in all parts of life.
Be strong babe… just ignore this kind of people… u have amazing life! im always behind to support u! 🙂
salam Vivy, by reading ur post you inspired me to be a better person. i am new here and i love every single of ur post (you can see me commenting on ur old post shows that im digging all ur archives!! hahaha), you make me feel good about life. may Allah bless you and your family, semoga dimurahkan rezeki dan sentiasa di dalam lindungan Allah selalu.
Well said vivy..u are very right..bersyukur apa yg ada..berusaha to be better..
By reading at your blog helps me improve myself confidence. It’s okay to be share with others what we have, what we feel and etc. If we see in positive way, others will see it too. In shaa ALLAH 😀