don’t mess
October 11, 2013 • 17 comments • 1547 views
Don’t mess with my braids, girlfriend.
Wearing a blazer from SPOTLIGHT (comes in pink and black), Duchess & Co. wide leg pants (coming soon) and scarf by Melinda Looi, all FV.
Don’t mess with my braids, girlfriend.
Wearing a blazer from SPOTLIGHT (comes in pink and black), Duchess & Co. wide leg pants (coming soon) and scarf by Melinda Looi, all FV.
Hi Vivy. Kenapa u tak publish my comment about bag besar? Takkan tu pun offensive kot? Are you one of those people yg publish only pujian and pujaan?
Anyway, this look nampak messy. Too much going on.
Dear vivy sweetheart,no need to publish comment yg ada aura negative mcm @nani ni.
Nani, u sound like a paranoid fan who needs attention. Seriiously get a life dude!
too much going on? what the what?? the whole ensemble is perfect, maybe the pants are a tad big .
the braids are cool, guess you found the style you like for now, eh? woohoo!
Alahai Linda, no need to be so kiss-ass lah. My first comment was on a post a few days ago. I just tanya Vivy whether she had any worries about carrying bag besar kat Malaysia because of so many case ragut. Simple. It was not even a criticism.
Takkanlah ego fragile sangat sampai tak boleh take an opinion pasal her OOTD. I believe Vivy is more educated and secure than that. Unlike orang macam Linda yang choose to see every single disagreement as “aura negative”.
Vivy please don’t be macam Linda. As a public figure who has a blog/twitter/etc, I’m sure you know there will be times people don’t agree with what you do or say. As long as they’re not cursing you out and threatening your life, why not just be open to other opinions. Only insecure and egoistic people need to be praised, complimented and validated all the time. And I know you’re not.
Hi Nani. I guess saw ur comment bout the beg besar and peragut last time if am not mistaken… sigh
Agree with u nani…some ppl need to be sucked up and validated all the time…yeahh with wide pant n oversize blazer if the tudung a bit simple would b nice
Hi to whoever, sumtimes it’s better just to keep silence and happy for others. We can pinpoint anything we want, but before we started to speak why not think for a while either the things have been spoken before or else we look kinda dumb saying the same thing all over again… Sigh… Well I guess Nani overlook her comment which already published in this blog. I assume your internet connection was cut off on that time while u were waiting your comment to be published out. 🙂
Chill guys~
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nani
September 24, 2013 – 9:53 pm | Permalink
Hi Vivy, just a quick question. U tak takut kena ragut ke bawak bags besar? I phobia la nak bawak bag besar kat Malaysia. Most times I just bring my wallet and cell. Problem is, I need deep pockets.
nani,
why dont you just expose yourself here and we ll see what vivy will talk about you.kalau u cakap pasal penerimaan org about opinion. provocation detected in your first comment. ‘takkan rasa offensive kot?’. ape u ingat blogger tak ade perasaan? haha, they are human being too. boleh tegur, but use wise words lah. dia nak publish u pnya comment or not, it’s her right, just like u talk to her .. u rs u ada hak sebab u reader, she also ada hak tersendiri. so y bother ask her publish ke tak. shame on u.
Assalamualaikum Vivy. Thanks for publishing my comments 🙂
I will never be a “fan” who will say that even your stinkiest farts smell good, like some people.
I will be a reader who drops by sometimes, to catch up with your news, and give you my honest, cut-to-the-chase opinion.
I think anyone who puts themselves out in public scrutiny should be prepared for honesty, even if the words used aren’t the typical Malay “manis and berkias”. If they want to use the excuse “bloggers pun have feelings”, then those bloggers should only open their blogs to close friends and family who will lace their comments with white lies.
As an entrepreneur, you will have to get used to the unlaced, brutal honesty if you want to really grow, overcome obstacles and do better than your competition. If you forever look for people to be soft and pleasant, you will become complacent and live in a bubble where you think everything’s already ideal.
I think that “fans’ are people who are your wanna-be(s). They live vicariously through you. They love the stories you tell, because they see only the pretty things, the Kodak moments. They can’t stand it when there’s a little discord, because it spoils the pretty/ideal pictures in their heads of the life they wish they have.
Oh yeah, you’re lovely in the tudung. But please, not the ones with braids, bells, etc, that would make anyone look like a court jester 🙂
Regards.
nani
haha, how come this woman generalize readers of proudduck as her fan, who can smell her fart? I m not her fan, but I am good with words. not like you. 🙂
Somehow rather I agree with Nani. Yang lain2 tu nak defensive beriya kenapa? If you can express your opinion, why can’t she do the same? I notice a lot of bloggers’ readers’ (sebenarnya peminat (fans), tapi tak nak mengaku pulak kan? padahal hari2 stalk blog orang, hari2 komen, u inspire me, i adore u bagai, i wanna be like u, you’re so pretty) become so defensive when their fave blogger is being criticized. Tak boleh kena tegur sikit, terus melenting. chill la.
Mann, I’m very sorry for you Vivy, to be bombarded with such jokes up there. No wonder there are a few sayings on this. I’ll share two;
“We sit silently and watch the world around us. This has taken a lifetime to learn. It seems only the old are able to sit next to one another and not say anything and still feel content. The young, brash and impatient, must always break the silence. It is a waste, for silence is pure. Silence is holy. It draws people together because only those who are comfortable with each other can sit without speaking. This is the great paradox.”
“Only speak when it improves the silence”
Of course, I wont expect some big boggle heads to accept these “facts”.
Fret not Vivy, you have a great family, great life, and I will only wish you the best in life. May Allah reward you with more rizkh and keep us all close to Him in every step of our way. Out with the negativities, in with the positivities. Life is too short to be involved with such ‘dramas’.
You’ve done well so far, so keep it that way.
Agree with S… such a drama the whole things.. back to basic,it’s not because how they react and so on… it just this one girl so emotional saying that her comment wasnt published out.. the REALLY point here… Not because this defensive offensive stuff and bla bla bla… why suddenly she came out with such drama even vivy already published out her comment…thats the point here… really2 dramatic… sigh
errk…honestly the ensemble in pictures above is horrible……that even vivy the gorgeous one can’t carry it.
Wow…drama here haha. Anyway, gotta agree that Nani has a valid point.
That aside, Vivy, you are too good to fall into hijab fashion victim. Honestly this ensemble makes you look way older than you are. No offense 🙂
In time you will develop your own style with hijab. Go that way. Don’t fall for the braids haha.
Take care!
this is so funny.. vivy set her blog on fashion, wear what she sells, we look at her pictures, we create drama (love hate thing), vivy did not even reply, you bought her clothes, and she becomes rich! bravo!!