worst mother ever
March 9, 2015Mariam is the complete opposite of how she was in my tummy. Inside me, she practically did somersaults all day and was so active I was so sure I was not going to get any sleep when she comes out. But I am so surprised that now she is like the nicest baby in the world.
She only cries if she wants milk, if she pooped or if she’s really hot. Other than that, she’s so quiet. She sleeps all day and all night too, giving me ample rest. With Daniel, it was breastfeeding time every few hours! But with Mariam, I literally have to wake her up to feed her. And even then she goes mehhhh.
The other night, Dean and Daniel went to sleep early. I was with Mariam in the living room. She in her cocoon, me on my laptop doing some work. I was chomping on Daniel’s Koko Krunch (seriously breastfeeding makes you reallyyyyyy hungry) happily in between concentrating on the excel sheets of sales analysis. I was so engrossed in it, scrunching my eyebrows and in deep thought. Mariam who had her eyes opened and looking around for a while, just dozed off on her own behind me.
I think about 2 hours passed by.
Ok time to sleep, I told myself.
I got up, turned off the living room lights and tucked myself into bed.
Aaaahhhhh so nice to lie down and just sleep, I thought to myself. Slowly I closed my eyelids shut.
Was just about to doze off and then….. YA ALLAH, MARIAM!!!!
I hastily got up and raced to the living room.
There she was, unmoved, untouched, “un-awake”.
Phewww. Omg phewwww.
I carried her into her cot after kissing her all over and whispering Sorry.
Worst. Mother. Ever.
Hahahahaha Hilarious!! I do get the joke:) (You’re not even a bad mother)
hahaha…you’re not the worst mommy ever, its just that you get urself the best baby ever… 🙂
baby girl is soooo different from baby boy…my 1st one is a girl then i had culture shocked when i have my 2nd-a boy…and that makes me loose weight and stay in shape longer than before…hahaha
hehehe… kesian mariam kena tinggal…hehe. U are not the worst mother ya… 😀
agaknya memang macam tu rasanya Vivy, selalunya kalau masa pregnant sangat susah, tak lena tidur, baby keep kicking dan moving.. nanti bila dah keluar, it turns out sebaliknya… Selalu jan dengar…
hihi may be because mariam was so calm dan quiet that you forgot she was there! 😀
Keep on breastfeeding Vivy!
hahahahaha Mariam Mariam..
Vivy u’re so cute!!LOL
Apparently mariam loves you soooo much by behaving so heavenly <3
it’s okay, it happens. it’s a thing called mommy brain. it’s real google it up. so worry not my dear
Mariam’s is so similar to your husband kak vivy. so calm and relax.
*mariam
i’m also the second in family. Mom said all i do when i was baby is sleeping hahha. Guess second baby mmg mcm tu kot! So behave. Bahahha.Mariam is too adorable!
MasyaAllah, Mariam sooooo beautiful!
mariam looks like your sister (i am a stalker, i promise)
AlamaK.. i am NOT* a stalker
hrm…one thing came across my mind though, nasib baik xkena makan kucing. LOL.
aiyaiyai….
how could you forget about her when you were in kain batik? you were in it for fun or something?you cant even walk normally.
Obviously, someone has been forgetting her pantang routine.
ouh…. you know whom. 😀
I cant imagine if dean sees her the next morning in the living room.
Bahahhaha been ther3 done that . Mariam is like my Ali opposite of my daughter.
Not sure if it’s the 2nd baby thing or because baby daughters give you a lot less trouble. But it happened to me too. Until she turned two………… *headache* hahaha.
when u have the time, pls write about your labor experience with this 2nd child. i’m 20 weeks preggy and its my first. kinda scared at the same time reading about your newborn makes me really excited!
@Yana I don’t know if you meant for your comment to be taken as a joke but for me, what you said was kind of rude. Everybody makes mistakes and forgets about things. Don’t tell me you haven’t. Vivy was preoccupied and accidentally left Mariam in the living room NOT outside the house. You don’t have to include nasty remarks like ‘ what if kucing makan dia’. Seriously?I wouldn’t wish something like that even for my worst enemy.
I agree with RN. It was really unnecessary of Yana to say that.
BTW I don’t know if this Yana is the same person who commented on Mariam’s name compared to Vivy’s name. That was also quite an “eh ko ni?” moment. What ever happened to the saying “If you have nothing nice to say, then don’t say anything at all”? Not everything needs to be said out loud, Yana. Maybe from here on you might want to apply the same rules of road crossing to your thoughts. Look left, right, then left again, then only cross/comment.
Enjoy getting to know Mariam better, Vivy! Godspeed!